In recent days, law enforcement agents have raided a compound belonging
to the polygamist Fundamentalist Church of Latter Day Saints (FLDS) -- Warren
Jeffs' operation -- and removed 416 children and 139 women from the premises.
I was discussing it with a neighbor, who told me that this amounted to
kidnapping. "These girls were forcibly removed from their homes," he
explained. "The girls had done nothing wrong, yet they must feel like
they're being punished -- being ripped from their homes, from their
families."
Well, that's one way of looking at it, but a very simplistic one. The
situation inside the compound was anything but simplistic, as chronicled in the
memoirs of a few rare escapees.
In normal society, when it is discovered that a child is being abused at
the hands of her parents, the authorities intervene, if the child is lucky, and
the child is removed from the abusive environment.
The recent activity at the FLDS compound is no different. The
authorities simply removed those girls and women from an abusive environment.
Some are probably too young to realize that they are being rescued, and
all must be very frightened by the abrupt change of course that their lives
have taken. But such is probably the case for just about anyone who is rescued
from a dangerous home life.
While I don't personally have a problem with polygamy, if it's between
consenting adults, girls who are raised in the FLDS are not willing
participants. They are forced, when very young, to marry whomever the church
leaders deem appropriate.
Imagine being a young girl forced to marry a man old enough to be your
father -- or perhaps even old enough to be your grandfather. You are treated
like breeding stock. Your purpose in life is to have lots of children and to
obey your husband. Those are your keys to heaven. That is how you are measured.
You have no control over your own life, your own body, or your own
children. All the decisions are made by your husband and by the church leaders
on behalf of "God".
You are powerless. You have to ask permission to make even the smallest
of decisions.
The only decision you can make, the only power you can gain, is to win
your husband's favor through sex and thereby perhaps have some minimal
influence on things. And, of course, this leads to backstabbing and rivalry
amongst wives.
And then there is the abuse by husbands, other wives, and the community.
No one will help you. No one will listen.
Imagine the effects that kind of life must have on a girl's self-esteem.
These girls are prisoners. They are trapped in this cult with no way
out. They are, essentially, slaves.
They are brainwashed and told that the outside world is
"evil," so that they won't dare try to escape. Besides, to reject or
even question these practices, they are told, is to defy the very word of God.
Do so and you're hellbound.
It is hard to believe that this is happening in the 21st century, but
then I live near Pennsylvania's Amish country. But at least Amish children are
given a choice.
The girls and women of the FLDS have no choice. All they have is their
cruel duty.
If I am ever treated that way at home, would someone please
"kidnap" me?
Mary
Shaw is a Philadelphia-based writer and activist, with a focus on politics,
human rights, and social justice. She is a former Philadelphia Area Coordinator
for the Nobel Prize-winning human rights group Amnesty International, and her
views appear regularly in a variety of newspapers, magazines, and websites.
Note that the ideas expressed here are the author's own, and do not necessarily
reflect the opinions of Amnesty International or any other organization with
which she may be associated. E-mail: mary@maryshawonline.com.